Erika S. 

Have you ever started interacting with someone and it just seems so natural and you think to yourself "yeah, this person gets it." That's how I feel about Alexis.

We met about 5 years ago through Instagram, and I've always enjoyed chatting with her, watching her stories and seeing her posts. So when she announced she was opening up Tough Love Collective for like-minded females who wanted to say f*ck failure, I was all in. I've been a solopreneur for years, and 2020 was my first year going all in- just my luck, right?

More than ever I have been on my phone networking, pulling inspiration from socials, and not creating art half as much as I should- a lot of that had to do with my mindset, self-doubt, and just feel not good enough. My photography looks different from other photogs which caused deep rooting fears to surface- not fitting in, being out of style, hurting other people's feelings because my captions are my thoughts and those might not be accepted- so forth. I was expecting the work we did to only help me professionally, but it helped me personally so so much. I was finally able to let go of some really heavy baggage knowing Alexis and the team was there for me (I mean, legit stuff from when I was like, 12 that lingered and I didn't even know.)

Alexis taught us a TON about personal growth, mental wellness, morning routines, and self care in just 3 months than I have ever learned in my entire 30 years on earth. Every meeting was met with positivity, calming vibes, and a list of book recommendations. Today, (1 month after our group ended) I look forward to my morning journal, meditating, and card pulling because of it. I talk kinder to myself, I feel more peace in the mornings, and motivation to kick ass throughout the day. If I had to make the decision to sign up for the mastermind again, it would be an absolute no brainer. I would sign myself, my dog, my mom, and best friend because I know we ALL would get something from it. Thank you Alexis for being a fountain of knowledge and loving the group in a nurturing way. My life will forever have more harmony from the things learned in Tough Love Collective.

Taylor D.

I can remember stumbling upon Alexis' IG & being so drawn to her energy & confidence. I loved that she spoke so much truth & was unapologetically her. I told myself that I wanted that, to be so deep rooted in who I am & not apologize for it.


Before working with Alexis, I was on my journey with mending past trauma & working on my self esteem. The work we did together was DEEP & definitely pushed me out of my comfort zone in every aspect of my life. I was able to view things from my past in a different way & why I do/think certain ways because of my past... but that I don't have to settle for that. Alexis helped me work on my inner demons & limiting beliefs.

Something she always encourages is asking "what is true". This has helped me so much with my anxiety & allowing me to free myself from doubting myself & worth. I can honestly say, the 2 months spent working with Alexis helped me grow, get uncomfortable, step out of my comfort zone & have realizations about myself that I probably would have just continued to look past. I am so grateful for her, her tough but PURE love, support & encouragement.

Bianca S.

I booked a 90 min. Session because I had this feeling, that you could help me with me blindspots. Help me get better at seeing where I needed some more growth. I didn't expect to be fully seen, or to be fully understood (I'm a Dane trying to keep up with your "I'm-speaking-so- fast-because-of-my-high-badass- energy-English" But I feel more than seen, I feel SO safe, and I feel like you are so spot on, and you are so good at managing the time, so we were able to come across all the things I NEEDED. I was both so excited and so calm after the session. It was such a safe space to talk about all the things, that had kept me from living my best life. All the things that has root in pain. I absolutely loved your energy, and LOVED that I got so much more than I expected from 'only' 90 min. Therefor I signed up for your 2 months program right away. And I have literally been in process with my blindspots, deepest fears and. shadows ever since.

I'm growing even more bit by bit every day. It can be terrifying as F*CK, but I WANT to become an even better version of myself. I'm done procrastinating, I'm done making excuses, I'm done spending time on people and things. that's not in alignment with me anymore. Thanks to you, I feel like I'm moving as fast as a Ferrari V d I'm so grateful. Thank you so much!

Brittany D.

Thank you. Thank you for showing me the world of tough love and self love. have finally shaken my 10 month funk of self depreciation. I've been reading books you've recommended, listening to podcasts, setting tough but realistic goals and not giving up when I don't achieve them. I've grown so much and still have a ways to go but I'm happy about the journey. I've signed up for something I've talked about for three years. 150 mile bike ride for MS. Im scared and terrified, but I now have people who invested in me. I keep turning to the books I've found through you, and your tough love affirmations to keep me calm and kick my butt into gear for training. Thank you again for putting yourself out there to help others. So many appreciate it and I am definitely one of them. I have 14 weeks left to train for 150 miles, and it starts with 5. 4. 3. 2. 1.

Jessica K.

To Change Or Not To Change! I sought you out as my Life Coach, Alexis, because I was unhappy and wanted more satisfaction in life. I needed to feel "unstuck" but more importantly dig deep and learn more about myself to understand why I was stuck to begin with. In order to explore my true purpose in life, I needed to get to the root of things that were holding me back. Things I would've never imagined had such an impact. Things that were completely unrelated to my challenges in moving forward. I found your work to be heartfelt, wise, insightful and practical with side of get it the fuck together. Your passion and push for people to breakthrough is inspiring and the tools your pride are crucial to personal and professional development. It may include some breakdowns but the treasure on the other side of the rainbow is priceless! I have been reminded that I am a powerful, courageous, loved and loving badass human with warrior instincts. And the limiting beliefs and patterns that have gotten in the way of my purpose and at times even my presence, have nothing on me! Mind over matter plus your support has nut me hack on track to feeling needed to feel "unstuck" but more importantly dig deep and learn more about myself to understand why I was stuck to begin with. In order to explore my true purpose in life, I needed to get to the root of things that were holding me back. Things I would've never imagined had such an impact. Things that were completely unrelated to my challenges in moving forward. I found your work to be heartfelt, wise, insightful and practical with side of get it the fuck
together. Your passion and push for people to breakthrough is inspiring and the tools your pride are crucial to personal and professional development. It may include some breakdowns but the treasure on the other side of the rainbow is priceless! I have been reminded that I am a powerful, courageous, loved and loving badass human with warrior instincts. And the limiting beliefs and patterns that have gotten in the way of my purpose and at times even my presence, have nothing on me! Mind over matter plus your support has put me back on track to feeling whole. From one dope soul to another! I thank you!

Danni

Working with Alexis is was exactly what I needed to take my business to the next level! After a couple years of health coaching, I reached a point where I needed to upgrade, expand and shift my practice. Alexis was there to support me, welcome my ideas, and bring so much clarity!! I can't believe I got all that from a 90 min intensive after watching her Reels ( I would recommend her to anyone looking for a REAL conversation that positively shifts their business. Thank you so much!!

Jasmine A.

I felt called TF out when I first discovered Alexis's content, and now I'm really glad that I finally started to work with her directly. She guided me from a period of reflection into taking real action in my life and projects. Her programming kept me consistent and accountable for long enough to develop lasting habits. I recommend her coaching to anyone who wants to figure out their subconscious fears and stop self-sabotaging in their life
and business, and overall identity. Thank you Alexis!

Lindsay

The 30 Days to Discipline Challenge was exactly the right support for playing with cold water therapy! Coach Alexis curated a supportive, educational, and safe container for me to build confidence and a new, healing practice!
The best part? I learned about what has held me back in the past and a variety of tools to use on any new discipline I take on! I feel so empowered! Celebrating my daily dip with the accountability group helped keep me engaged and committed to my goals especially on the tough days. She leads with heart, honesty, transparency, and that good tough love! Thanks bunches! 

Eva H.

If you can't handle straight forward, to the point, compassionate coaching, Alexis is not for you. I mean that in the best way possible. I found Alexis' IG page when I we getting a little too comfortable and needed a push (or a swift kick in the pants) in the right direction. I signed up for Alexis' Tough Love Master class since is was more affordable for me and immediately experienced the pay off. She was able to highlight all the fears that hold us back from being the people we want to be and doing the work we want to do. She called me out and helped my identify my blocks and how to move past them. By the 3rd day of a 6 day class I had discovered new things about myself and what fuels me along with making simple, but impactful changes to my daily routine. If you're experiencing the same road blocks, I highly recommend you invest with Alexis and find a program/seminar/masterclass that works for you. I'll be following her content and saving up for some group or 1:1 coaching for sure.

Jenn K.

My 1:1 coaching with Alexis was mind blowing to say the least . It's crazy at 40 years old how much life I was still breathing into my traumas and my triggered. During only 90 mins with Alexis, I had so many ah-ha moments. And true reflects of how and where I want and honestly need my life to go from here on out. I will say, I totally dig the tough love from Alexis. I'm someone who needs that kick in the ass and those hard to hear words, I can't help but think 'where the hell has she been all of my 40 years'. Also, she did it with such kindness and grace that the toughness came in a capsule of love. The struggles I've had have eased since meeting with Alexis and my world had really changed, I seriously can't wait to work with her more. I literally stalk her platforms taking in all I can till I'm at a point where I can truly hired her full time forever and ever and ever. I highly suggest you all do the same! You'll forever be changed for the better! (Happy, Free & 40)